Does Using a Vibrator Make It Harder to Orgasm With a Partner?
Have a toy that knows *exactly* how to turn you on? Worried it might make it hard to orgasm from other kinds of stimulation? How to enjoy your favourite vibe without getting stuck in a rut.
Whether you're single or in a relationship(s), vibes can be a fun addition to your sexual repertoire. However, since they provide a unique sensation (it's pretty hard to replicate the dual rotating, spinning action of the Rabbit) women sometimes wonder if using one will make it difficult to orgasm from other types of play.
So, in today's video we share:
Why you might need to adjust your expectations about how long it will take to orgasm from penetration without a vibrator (hint: it's not the vibe's fault!)
What happens when you have a particular "set-up" (certain toys, positions, scenarios) that you use all the time
How to reframe your sexual experiences to be more inclusive and expansive
Our top recommendations for couple-friendly toys that can be added to your repertoire (it doesn't have to be an either/or scenario!)
Why our goal-oriented culture might be doing us a disservice in the bedroom
Kim & Amy Sedgwick love to discuss sex, periods, and all the other things we’re not supposed to talk about. The co-founders of Red Tent Sisters and ecosex.ca, they’ve been featured in every major Canadian news outlet and have become a trusted resource for women seeking natural (effective!) birth control, a more joyful sex life, and an empowered journey to motherhood.
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